I always tell you that you should believe in yourself. In order to do so, you should surround yourself with people that add value to your life. I am not saying that you need to surround yourself with people you can USE to get ahead in life. What I mean by this is you should be around people that fundamentally can provide the qualities you can provide in a relationship. Be it support, love, kindness, whatever the trait maybe; invest only in people that you can get that back from.
When any bond brings drama into your life I take it as a sign from the universe basically telling us that this person adds no value to your life anymore. Whatever the history maybe, be it love or a deep friendship, if for some reason the energy is not right, perhaps it is something you need to pay attention to.
It’s unfortunate to say, but you are the company you keep. This directly reflects on you. The kind of people you invest in is directly correlated to the energy you put out into the world. This energy reflects on the TYPE of people that YOU want to keep around in your life. Invest in people that are similar to you. People will tell you that opposites attract but I strongly believe that they clash. Your core values and morals have to mirror each other for any kind of relationship to work. Be it a friend, a lover or a family member.
If you are in any sort of situation that creates drama in your life, you are in charge to making sure YOU don’t stick around. I know it is easier said then done. Sometimes we feel the need to justify someone attacking us, however, only insecure people need to have the last say. Know who are, believe in your character, know that the people that love you would never leave your side and let the world do the weeding out of negative people for you.
They say avoiding a problem is running away from it.
I say.. avoiding drama and such people only speaks of the confidence you have in knowing which of your investments…
are worth it.